Sunday, August 20, 2006 at 11:35 AM
found this on someone's blog: "in a bid to prevent onself from getting hurt, defences are often, actually always, put up. but sometimes, it's the defences that are making cicumstances hurtful. defences are the things that cause great divides, that bring about gross misconceptions and ridiculous misunderstandings. sometimes, they're even the ones killing relationships."too bad its true.